I often see masters like Bingo sensei and Yagami sensei being able to send their partners into orgasm heaven just by touch or ‘simple’ ties. This is especially so when you see the girls shaking uncontrollably yet happily whenever they are tied by them. Go see their X, you will get what I mean.
I was originally intrigued when I first came across Bingo’s (now banned and dead) Instagram account and then his Zoom class back in 2020 during the world wide Covid lockdown. Then I got to see Yagami’s model gyrating their hips with such rigour after being tied. And that got me thinking – How to really send them to such heights. Even when you watch Yukimura’s old video, the girls ARE REALLY enjoying themselves through and through.
So I went to Japan, took lessons from Osada Steve to be introduced to Yukimura’s and his style of tying and connection; an unofficial class (I was literally just watching him tie, when he told me to watch closely his interpretation of my ties) with Bingo when I went to his bar earlier this year; and then another few days of lessons with Yagami sensei.
It is all about tension – Bingo / Yagami
So what the heck IS TENSION?!?!?! Anyways, that is another story. What I observed was how they touch and the rhythm of touch.
Heard about meridian points and Qi?
The concept of using touch to elicit arousal often intersects with both modern understandings of sensory stimulation and traditional practices like Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), particularly acupuncture. In the context of arousal, sensual touch focuses on stimulating areas of the body that heighten sensations and emotional connectivity.
In TCM, this is closely associated with the flow of Qi (vital energy) through meridians (energy pathways in the body). Specific acupuncture points (acupoints) can be targeted to balance energy and influence physical and emotional states, including arousal.
So let’s see where it is:
Conception Vessel 4 (CV4) – Guanyuan
Located three finger widths below the belly button, this point is believed to enhance vitality and sexual energy, making it significant for reproductive health and arousal.
Now, if you look back at some of performances, they press the tummy and the partner give so much intimate feedback. It turns out to be the Guanyuan acupoint.
Kidney Meridian
Points along this meridian, especially near the lower back and on the inner legs, are thought to affect the kidney organ system, which in TCM is closely linked to sexual vitality and fear management
The light touch or massage at this point after a tie is made does wonders actually. I tried it multiple times and wow..
Liver Meridian
Points here may help in managing stress and emotions, which can indirectly improve sexual mood and arousal due to the liver’s role in the smooth flow of Qi and blood.
Heart 7 (HT7) – Shenmen
Located on the wrist, it is used to calm the mind and heart, which is crucial for emotional intimacy and sexual arousal.
Ok, if you look closely at how some of the masters tie, especially those well versed in the Yukimura’s ryu, you tend to see this – The top holding the hands of the partner, for elongated period of time. The partner will slowly ease into the tie. NOT to discount the OTHER techniques used, but this point is there, where they hold the partner. It does help getting them into the headspace too. Doesn’t hurt to try yeah?
Pericardium 6 (PC6) – Neiguan
This point, found three finger widths above the wrist on the inner forearm, is used to open the chest energy, which can enhance emotional openness and potentially increase arousal.
So, the combination and sequence of stimulating these points can vary widely based on individual needs and specific goals. In a sensual or therapeutic setting, these points might be stimulated gently through massage or more directly through acupuncture by a licensed practitioner. The intention is to promote relaxation and increase the natural flow of energy, which can enhance arousal and intimate connection.
I took up ‘some form’ of massage over 10 years of practicing / watching / learning from different masseurs. Came from a family history with TCM doctors and therapist. So somehow was able to link here and there abit. Plus how I got my brain ‘reset’ by Yagami sensei in March this year on body movements and body tension, all these seems to fall in place like a jigsaw puzzle.
Yeaps, there are techniques in touching them on these points which vary widely. But that is the thing. Knowing where to press is just 1 thing. Knowing HOW is another…
Sorry for the lack of pictures here. Just go search the net. 😀
Nawa Kenshin 